Lately I've been thinking a lot about the pictures I take. Moms are always taking pictures, right? My Mom took soooo many pictures of us growing up. But she's only in a few. Mom was mostly BEHIND the camera, not in front.
I've made a commitment to myself recently:
Step out from behind the camera.
Most
days, I attempt to rock a 2-day old ponytail while wearing my standard
daily attire of well-worn jeans, flip-flops and a baby in my Ergo
carrier.
While I am FAR from a perfect looking Mom,
my kids don't care about that.
They don't care what color my toenails are painted,
or what brand of mascara I use,
{or whether I wear any at all}
or that I wear the most hideous pajamas ever,
or that I haven't gone to the gym in forever,
or that I rotate through about 5 shirts that fit me.
My kids care that I am HERE...
that I am laughing with them,
that I am listening to them,
that I care about what they like,
that I play trains with them,
that I kick the soccer ball with them,
that I sit and watch a movie they like with them,
that I support them in their class at school,
that I tickle, giggle, hug and kiss them,
and that I put little notes in their lunch.
They care that I am HERE for them.
And when we look back on the pictures of fun memories we've made together as a family, I want those pictures to show that I was there with them too.
So, here goes... Mom is HERE and she's in the pictures!
And honestly, it helps ease all of those lack of confidence issues, or "but I have no makeup on" and "my hair is in a ponytail AGAIN" issues to just start putting pictures out there that are less than perfect. Because that is real life.
And real life is what we're living here at Gallamore West :)
And here's a really silly video where I actually thought it was a picture being taken {thus the non-moving smile for the 1st bit} and where I say "chunka chunka chunka" in a scary man voice. But you know what? My 7 year old and I laughed our heads off sitting on the front porch watching this tonight. So that's what matters.
How about you???
Are you hiding behind the camera?
Let's step out in front together and show our kiddos that we are here making memories with them. Whether we are working moms, work at home moms, stay at home moms... as long as we are doing what we can to show our kids that we are here for them, that is what matters most. You ARE present in your kids' lives.
So I encourage you to step out in front of the camera...
show your smile,
rock that ponytail,
and let's gather memories through pictures that show that you are present in the lives of your kids.
Hash-tag #mommemories on Instagram pics {and Twitter too, although that is still sooo foreign to me... am I alone in thinking that?!} I would love to have you join me in creating a fun community of Moms who live with purpose to create meaningful memories with our sweet kids! xoxo


































